THE METAMORPHOSIS OF YOU

Our life offers experiences that guide our responses to living our life. Some have had a demoralizing experience that leaves them with deep shame, low self-esteem, and guilt; it can become a life of pushing the pain deep inside of themselves. That pain inside continues to grow through adulthood if not adequately treated. Depending on the period of the experience of CSA, the child begins to display signs of withdrawal, mistrust, suicidality, difficulty relating to others, avoidance of physical touch, sleep problems, and nightmares. One of the most debilitating signs is a deep feeling of shame. This writing aims to create an awareness of the sexual abuse trauma children endure and carry into adulthood. A violation of a child’s persona is unacceptable and must be eradicated.  Adult survivors deserve to find healing. 

Nourishment

As we embark on the CSA awareness journey, we discover that no matter the depth of the pain, a new life experience can emerge. Let’s use the metamorphosis of a butterfly to explain how our metamorphosis creates a powerful emergence to a new life while finding relief from the pain and suffering of the CSA experience. A butterfly begins with the egg stage, nourishing the grand caterpillar. Childhood pain can be the nourishment of a life purpose to help others alleviate the pain of CSA. Our beauty and strength lie in our flaws, imperfections, and broken pieces. We all have beauty and strength, but it may not be realized. The second stage of the butterfly is the caterpillar feeding stage. The caterpillar grows ten times larger during this feeding stage than the egg stage. After experiencing childhood pain during the caterpillar stage, we emerge from the victim and survivor stage of the pain. As the caterpillar, we grow from the victim and survivor stages by entering self-discovery. We no longer label ourselves. Through self-discovery, we grow as a person, and the more we grow personally, the more we find relief from childhood pain. The third stage of the butterfly’s metamorphosis is the Chrysalis/Pupa or transition stage, in which the complete butterfly forms. Our growth from untreated pain takes a massive leap in the transition stage as we discover healing treatments and techniques that catapult the release of pain and suffering. It is in the stage of transition that healing begins through mental health treatment. 

Healing Begins

Correct mental health treatment specific to your needs creates a new YOU, a transformation to a new being that allows a better life to emerge. The last stage of a butterfly's metamorphosis is the adult stage. In this case, the butterfly is a white butterfly that signifies hope for a thriving life. As we continue the journey of self-discovery and transformation, we will ignite the inner journey to create and sustain a flourishing life.

Moving Forward

White butterflies are usually associated with the fleeting life we have on

Earth. With that transient nature, “White Butterflies” reminds us of the need

to live life grandly and make every moment count. A white butterfly

symbolizes spiritual, emotional, mental, and physical healing. Seeing a white

butterfly means that you are healing from heavy inner pain and provides

hope that your dreams come to fruition. Hope is a source of moving forward.

It motivates us to wake up each day with a new perspective to obtain inner

healing and let go of internal suffering due to our healing journey.